This is some thing to help others make wise choices. I myself made bad choices, because of improper learning and up bringing. The very most important thing we should know is, to raise our children up in the admonition and nurture of the Holy creator YHWH Almighty, by His word of life. That is the only reason we are here on this earth, to direct our children to HIM to become like Yahushua the Messiah! to become sons of the Most High, and to have that close personal relationship with HIM here and there!. Our decision to serve Him is a good one, but our children are his heart beat if we let them down we let HIM down. Do your self a favor make sure beyond a shadow of doubt that the person you are marrying is your true mate, that YHWH approves of he or she. They can destroy your life and future. If I was to learn from my mistakes now when I have gone through the fire it would be counted as a lesson, if I hadn't learned it is counted as loss. We can learn from our mistakes, but wisdom comes from hearing every word of YHWH ! AMEN